Be wise and smart and find yourself a man who loves you and has a good-paying job. Find a man who will pay all  the bills and give you a worry-free life……a wonderful life! Having a wonderful life doesn’t mean having millions of money, owning expensive & flashy cars or high-rise condos or mansions. A wonderful life can be simple living, having sustaining food in the table, a comfortable bed in your cozy home, a good paying job to be able to pay the bills and enjoy some vacation time,  a good running Camry , good company of someone or people you loved and most of all a loving God in  your life. Without someone to share life with is so miserable and sad. Enjoy a simple life! Having a simple life is a wonderful life!

 

 

 

In this Lenten season, I would like to write about believing in goodness, most of all, believing in God’s infinite goodness! Believing in our CREATOR who made EVERYTHING, gave us the gift of life and the beautiful world we live in, with all its grandeur & splendor. It is up to you to make your lives what you want it to be or not to be! Take charge! If you want to have a good life, work hard to reach your goals and ambitions. It is by putting God in the center of your lives that you will be able to go through life stronger despite of failures and disappointments and  be happy and contented with whatever life brings. Your life depends on you, it is not up to God!  When bad things happen, we should not blame Him and instead we should pray and ask for his love & mercy. Secondly, believing in the goodness of family. We have just 1 dad, 1 mom, brothers and sisters and cannot be duplicated. Prioritize your family before your friends. Family comes first! When everything fails, family will always STAND BY YOU! It is up to you to build a harmonious and loving relationship with them.  We should change our bad attitudes and be close to our families. Thirdly, believing in the goodness of others from all walks of life, rich or poor, black or white, young or old. These people are capable of showing acts of kindness and empathy towards us. People are basically good. Try to give your trust and confidence in them. We are all brothers and sisters! We are all created equal in the eyes of God. GIVE LOVE, GET LOVE! Lead by good example and do good to others. And lastly, by believing in the goodness of ONESELF that we are all created beautiful and unique! You have the power to change your life for the better. Give your lives a meaningful purpose and worth. Share your blessings and put a smile to other people’s  faces. Being good and doing good will make you feel beautiful as ever and forever! Be a pizzazz woman and believe in goodness!

You might be wondering how Beauty & Fashion would have a correlation to love and money. Think outside of the box! A beautiful & attractive woman will surely get men of high calibre, men who are self-driven, competitive and successful. Who of these men will not fall in love with a beautiful woman? How can they resist you? For all the single women out there, your chance of getting the man of your dreams is all up to you! Pizzazz women have the power to choose their man over those women who don’t fix or take care of themselves. Choose a man with a good and stable job, is responsible and more generous in most ways than not, a man who can support you and of course, the most important of all is someone who genuinely LOVES you. But you also have to be practical in these days of inflation and recession. You never know how you will cope with life without a man who loves you with no bounds or limits! Love and Money go together in perfect harmony! Love without money or Money without love are both disasters! Don’t just go for the money…….money alone will not bring you happiness. Don’t just choose love……you can’t eat love!!!!! Imagine marrying a hot guy whom you’re so in love with but has no job, no money and you have to be the one to pay the bills. How about getting a rich man who has lots of money but you’re not happy with him because he is not sweet and loving, has no time for you and is obssessed with his money, money money! There are so many men out there whom you can have a wonderful life with because he truly loves you and he will take good care of you. Is that better? Be a pizzazz woman and you’ll get what you want and find the man you can be happy with for the rest of your life!

When we were little, the very first things our moms and pops taught us were to brush our teeth and take a bath. We would smell so good that they can”t stop sniffing us. As we grow older, even with the hustle and bustle of everyday life, we should continue and keep up with what we were taught and how we were brought up. We should always start our day with a shower, putting on a good deodorant and brushing our teeth well. It is so important to maintain good hygiene for good health and feeling good about yourself. Always see to it that you also rinse your mouth with an antiseptic to wash away any peculiar smell after eating meals. It is such a turnoff to be face-to-face with people with bad breath or body odor. We are supposed to take care of ourselves. Nobody will! You’re no longer a baby! You’re very much capable of doing these things by yourselves but you’re just too LAZY! Take for example, a Sales Manager of a prestigious company, who has bad breath and talks to a lot of people. How can the job be done when people want to get away from you! Even if you are the Smartest or most Beautiful of them all, but you smell bad, people will not want to be near you! You should be aware of your own bad genes. Go to the dentist at least twice a year to take care of any gum disease that may cause bad breath. Brush your teeth twice or thrice a day. Take a shower everyday. Wear fresh clothes all the time. Don’t reuse or repeat clothes or socks that you already wore or used. Don’t you want to smell and feel fresh everyday? Make this a habit of being clean and staying clean! They always say Cleanliness is next to Godliness”. Being clean is a virtue. It shows respectability, honor and dignity. Outer beauty with inner beauty and having good hygiene completes and makes up a pizzazz woman! Do you want to be pizzazz?

I wanna start by saying that “GOOD PEOPLE ARE BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE!” I’ve talk about the many things that can give women outer beauty such as make-up, fashionable clothes, bags, shoes and flashy jewelry but all these are not enough. Real beauty comes from the heart! People are drawn towards someone who is friendly, sincere, not flaky. A heartfelt smile graciously given to anyone you meet or see is a reflection of what a wonderful human being you are! A genuine acceptance of yourself and of others will bring forth more happiness and serenity in your life. Being good to people no matter what their status in life is and whatever their color & race is, is most rewarding. Beauty is not just having a pretty face or wearing trendy clothes and jewelry but it is how we treat or deal with people. Imagine meeting an attractive woman who is rude, mean, arrogant and disrespectful! Don’t you get turned-off and dismayed by that kind of attitude! That is total UGLINESS!!! I’d rather be around people who are nice and sweet. Being good is a beautiful thing! This goes by saying that outer beauty with inner beauty results in a more BEAUTIFUL YOU! Radiate love and positivity and people will look up to you and love you in return. Be kind and gentle to others! Show empathy to those people who come to you for comfort. Share your blessings and you will be rewarded a hundredfold. Being a pizzazz woman is about having inner beauty and outer beauty altogether!

When women start aging, most of them lose interests in making themselves look attractive and beautiful. They don’t make any effort or don’t care at all! They just want to look old and dowdy like cutting their hair really short & curly or keeping their long, tangled & dry hair, not put on make-up, let their hair turn gray , wear those matching tops and capris and not to forget, wear stockings even in the hot weather.  They turn into old toads, never minding about how their husbands feel about their looks going down the drain. I’d say “Dump the OLDIE look!” STOP and THINK!!!! It’s not too late to change that stinkin’ thinking! It doesn’t mean that just because you’re older NOW that you have a good excuse to LOOK OLD! “It’s okay to look old becoz I’m old anyway!” That’s a big NO NO! Aging is a normal process that we all have to face & embrace in style. In this modern world of artificial intelligence, there are so many ways to make yourself not look your real age. I’m 58 years old but I look like I’m in my 40’s. Do you like to look and feel young again? Then work, WORK on it! I know that when a woman gets older, their hair starts thinning and that maybe the reason why they curl their hair, to hide the baldness. Well, there are so many shampoos and conditioners that can help with this problem which are available in the market today. Don’t let your hair turn gray. There are various root touchups and hair color that you can use at least once a month. Put on a light makeup to enhance your features and better yet, try moisturizers and serums to lift your sagging skin. Don’t go under the sun too much because this will cause wrinkles or if you just love nature, don’t forget to put on sunscreen lotions. Wear the right bra to support the muscles of your breasts. Exercise a little bit everyday or preferably go walking when the sun comes down. Choose a wardrobe that will flatter you rather than wear those oversized or loose clothes that you think will hide your flabbiness. Avoid wearing those oldfashioned stepins which are so unglamourous and wear sandals or flats instead. All these changes can make magic and turn you into a younger looking, more attractive woman. You can be a pizzazz woman no matter what your age is. Love yourself! Be young at heart and make that man fall in love with you over and over again, for the rest of eternity!

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These are the Alexa Rhodium Drop Earrings in Red, White Pearl and Black. They can come in gold and rose gold too! Very stylish and not heavy. Either one of these Kendra Scott earrings will surely make you look so fabulous and ready to partay the night away!!!!  Just click on the above link and it will lead you to find these lovely earrings.

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These Kendra Scott Elle earrings are so classic, they’ll never go out of style. You can wear them anytime of the day or night. Mix and match them with your favorite necklaces and bracelets! They come in gold, rhodium and rose gold. You can shop online and customize them with any color or metal. Just click on the above link to lead you where to purchase these Elle earrings at lower prices.

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Alexa Drop Earrings in Cobalt Blue

Elle Lux Drop Earrings in Black

Alex Drop Earrings in Turquoise

Alex Gold Drop Earrings in Brown Pearl

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Of course, Michael Kors and Kendra Scott tops my lists of what a woman must have! Michael Kors’ clothes are so fashionable and versatile! They can be worn everywhere, parties, night-out, work, social gatherings, shopping, etc. and when matched with the lovely Kendra Scott jewelries, you will definitely make people’s head turn and take a second admiring look at you. Kendra Scott are made of high-quality materials, has its own unique style and splendor that no woman can ever resist. I’m sure you will stand out in the crowd, looking fashionable as always and the best- dressed of them all!

One of the assets of women is having good-looking BREASTS. Not all women are well-endowed with BiG breasts but I think that it doesn’t matter even if yours is not a size 40 DD, as long as you know how to carry yourself in style, you are on the road to fabulousness! I think choosing the right bra (short for brassiere) will enhance your breasts and make you look more attractive. Women with small or flat boobies should wear padded and full coverage bras. More adult women should wear push-ups to show a firmer shape and add more support. Saggy boobs may be a turn-off not only to men but women alike, probably okay upto a certain extent as long as they don’t droop upto your waistline!  Saggy boobs are natural and part of normal aging but you don’t want to show people your real age, do you?  For more mature women who are trying to look for partners-to-be on Match.com, Eharmony, okCupid or Tinder, you should post pictures that show a tiny bit of sexiness, like a little cleavage, for these men to stop, look and read your profiles. I tell my single friends to do this but they are too shy and GUESS WHAT…….they’re still SINGLE after  8 years and they haven’t found the love of their lives! Look sexy and feel sexy! Do this for yourself and not for anybody! Feel confident and be happy with your own! Be a pizzazz woman!

Ensemble dressing is a popular thing in fashion these days. This kind of dressing is when you create a matching outfit, which I prefer, because it makes you look more classy and stylish. You’ll have to choose separates that have the same design or material and match it with the right color of accessories, shoes and bag. There are a lot of clothing brands you can choose from to match your outfit. You don’t have to dress in one color or shade from head to foot, you can break the monotony and be more artsy about your looks. For example, shades of pink are the hot trend today. You don’t have to wear pink all throughout, pink dress, pink shoes, pink bag and pink or rose-gold accessories! OMG!!! You would look so dull! Even a bridesmaid in a wedding would add color to her ensemble by putting white flowers on her hair and wear silver glittery sandals! You can choose the colors that would blend together and not those that are too far-out contrasting. Your dress should determine what kind of accessories to wear, simple or blocked dresses would go with bigger or bolder accessories while those with prints or patterns should be matched with simple or smaller jewelries. You can also add a belt or a cardigan to make it more interesting. You can try different combinations to see which one would be the most flattering on you. Dress in style and be more pizzazz!